Tera's Haven

Some people don't know that when they hurt you, they take away a piece of you that you can't get back. Not all people around you will understand it unless they have felt the same pain or they have given the same things you gave. Even that, the pain wont still be the same. So when your hurt, its okay to be mad, to say things to let some pain get out of your chest. Do not apologize for it, for people surely doesn't know  all the pain you've been through.  Be mad and be okay with it. 

"I'm unpredictable, I never know where I'm going until I get there, I'm so random, I'm always growing, learning, changing, I'm never the same person twice. But one thing you can be sure of about me; is I will always do exactly what I want to do.

"…  I’m not completely sure of what i want with my life actually, and I still feel that emptiness sometimes but what I know  now is that ,  this life right now is what i want,  this is what I decided to be, this life that I’m living right now, the person that I am, the place where I live, the people I am with, the job I have and everything that I achieved and total of all that is happening in my life right now…this is it! this I what I want with my life. I want to accept it as it is. there maybe something more that I desire or need but i will deal with it everyday, and work for it.  i was blinded to look too much about  what i want with my life, without realizing that I have so much more to be thankful for, that my life is the life that I want to be. And right now whatever comes my way I am okay with it:)"

I know I'm difficult to love but who isn't? We are raised differently. We differs in a whole lot of way and that where compatibility comes in. We don't have to really be alike. We don't need to like the same type of music. We don't need to walk in sync. We don't need to have the same views in life, We just need to respect each other. We don't need to delegate task to one another. We don't need to wake up at the same time, We just need to show love to one another.. and sometimes we need to agree to disagree.  I don't need you to cook for me, we can always eat out or we can always call delivery. I just want you to show me you love me and when I push or try to walk away from you. I just want you to prove me your love is true.

The tough thing about following you heart is that people forget to mention that sometimes the heart takes you to places you shouldn't be. Places that are scary as they are exciting and as dangerous as they are alluring. Sometimes your heart cannot take you to places that lead to happy ending. That's not even the difficult part; the difficult part is when you follow your heart, you leave normal; you go into the unknown and once you do you can never go back.

Relationships are complicated and difficult. Both people have to be on the same page. Both people have to be at the same point in their lives, wanting the same things. Or if not one should be willingly give way for the other wants and likes. One should be willing to sacrifice. Both can't have any doubts or reservations. Do something too early, and you can taint it. Jump in too quick, you can screw things up whichever way it would be difficult. There are so many other factors besides who the person is..you have to consider who they are now, who they will be in the future. Would you still want or love that same person after all the changes? if you have the potential as a couple ..are you on the same page and will you continue to be?